Friday, September 27, 2013

Pack Your Bags- Traveling in College

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When you arrive at college, you realize the world’s so much bigger than your hometown. And then you step into class or the student union and realize it’s even bigger than this. You’re surrounded by students from across the country and around the world, learning from professors and faculty that have seen and done more than you could imagine. You may start to wonder when (or how) you’ll get to see the national parks, state capitals, and international cities that textbooks detail and teachers bring alive in class discussions. College is the perfect time to travel domestically and internationally, expose yourself to different cultures, and have some of your own adventures. These opportunities are definitely in during your next four years. Here are some options to consider when thinking about traveling in college:

  • Study Abroad- what could be better than spending three months in a foreign country, taking your typical college classes with a view of international cities outside your classroom window? Studying abroad allows you to explore and immerse yourself in another culture, learning its values and gaining a global perspective. Many colleges have programs in Europe and every other continent. Contact your school’s study abroad or external programs office to learn what options they offer and how to participate. In many cases, tuition and room and board remain the same whether you’re on campus or in another country. Extra costs come through travel fees set by the school to get you back and forth and any traveling you decide to do on your own (hello summer job!) Hint: if your school doesn’t have a program to your dream destination, there’s often an option of transferring to a different school’s program as long as you work it out with your college. (And if you need any other reasons to convince you to study abroad, this HuffPost article gives you six more!)
  • Alternative Spring Break- while we all want (and deserve) a break after the agony that is midterms, volunteering your time through an alternative spring break program is a worthy and fulfilling reason to skip relaxing. Alternative spring breaks started in the 1970s at Georgetown University, though the term for the program was born at Vanderbilt University in the 1980s, according to The Washington Post. Spending the week rebuilding homes, teaching English, or working on conservation projects will give you a fresh perspective on issues you may have discussed in class and connect you with the people dealing and working to solve these problems every day. While these trips are hardly glamorous, participants leave gaining more knowledge about their world and developing a sense of community and understanding with the people they work with. Trips like these are usually funded through your school or through fundraising, so students typically pay a small fee (or no fee at all!). In many cases, it’s cheaper than buying a plane ticket home to see family, and an important and worthwhile cause to put the money towards! If your school doesn’t have a program in place, this list fromYahoo! provides several sites to help you start your journey.
  • Volunteer Abroad-if you decide after an alternative spring break program that volunteering is your passion, spend your summer volunteering abroad! Plenty of opportunities exist outside of the U.S. to do similar projects in communities in South America, Africa, and Europe. They’ll provide you with insight into the lives of people around the world and may change the way you think. Read this USA Today piece by a college student of what he discovered while teaching in South Africa.

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Monday, September 16, 2013

The Ins and Outs of High School Leadership

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We know a good leader when we see one. They’re enthusiastic, focused, and ready to take on anything with the help of their team. These traits aren’t just in famous CEOs or policy makers though—your class presidents or basketball team captain have them too, and so do you. You can be a leader in your high school or community, helping to make change or putting on a great school concert! Although you may hear friends talking about leadership positions in terms of how they look on college applications, there’s more to taking on a leadership position that will benefit you long after graduation. These helpful reminders and research from Study Point will guide you toward a leadership position that fits your goals and away from the pitfalls some high school students make.

Taking on leadership positions, according to Study Point, will help you discover passions and build self-esteem. Actions associated with leadership (hard work, accomplishment, recognition) boost positive self-image and increase self-esteem. By leading your school softball team, youth ministry, or school newspaper, you’ll put in hard work and see the amazing results you and your group have achieved, showing your unique capabilities as a leader. In addition, one study showed that students who held leadership positions in high school were more likely to hold managerial positions as adults, according to Study Point. By participating now, you could set yourself up to guide people in whatever career path you choose!

When looking for leadership positions in high school, it’s important to know what your passions and skills are. If you don’t like public speaking, you shouldn’t run for class office, but if you love art you could become president of the art club. And while you’re dreaming of the big title now, know that in order to get there, you have to work your way up from the bottom. This will make you a better leader though, providing you with valuable experience and knowledge about the organization. As a leader, you’ll also have to know how to work well with others and listen to their ideas, which you can get while working as a club member! Other important traits to have as a leader are optimism and the ability to take action. Seeing the positive in every situation and knowing when to step up and make a decision will let your peers see you as a leader and rely on you in tough situations.


While it is tempting, resist the urge to have multiple leadership positions just so “it looks good.” Pick areas you’re interested in so you can dedicate more time to them. Leadership isn’t just about the title—it’s about demonstrating those qualities in everyday life! So be a leader, whether you’re captain or a great team member.

Monday, September 9, 2013

Transitioning from Middle School to High School

Upon entering high school, you’re faced with many challenges. You leave old friends in middle school or just outgrow them; you get serious about your future, more homework, first jobs, and new friendships. You just want to learn where you fit in with all of this confusion and be your confident, happy, high school self.  Let TGHT give you a few ideas on the transition from middle school to the high school lifestyle!

Make a good first impression: When transitioning to high school, first impressions are important. Get to know your classmates and be eager to learn in any situation. Reach out to other students, be kind and polite, and keep in mind that they are in the same position as you. Don’t be afraid to meet new people; if you feel someone in your class shares the same interest as you, be friendly and get to know them.

Be YOU: Don’t get carried away with growing up too fast. Yes, you have four more years until college, but enjoy your high school years. Find your interests and join organizations that you feel can help you express yourself. Don’t get caught up in appearances and being with the “popular crowd” if that’s not who you are. Focus on your grades and how you can become a better you—not anyone else’s efforts. Above all, remember not to judge others—especially when you haven’ t gotten to know them.

Listen: In high school you have a little more independence than you did in middle school. You’re given your homework and a due date with a little more creative freedom. Make sure you’re taking in everything you’re being taught. If you have questions in class, don’t be afraid to ask them because someone in your class is probably confused about the same topic. If you show your classmates that it’s okay to listen and ask questions, you may give them the courage they need to participate as well.

 Make new friends: In high school you’ll more than likely split from old friends, whether you attend different high schools or simply just outgrow each other. Don’t worry; with age comes maturity, and you may not always mature at the same pace as the friends you had in middle school. You must be more independent and explore your new environment, and while it may be hard seeing your old crew but not having that connection, it will get better with time.  Be open to new friends and new opportunities; join clubs, find new interest and be open to new experiences!

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The transition from middle school to high school can be very confusing, but adjusting and making the best of your experience is the best option.  Remember that meeting new people and having to study hard is not a bad thing, it’s preparing you for the next step. So enjoy your high school years, join organizations, create relationships with your teachers, and have fun!

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Dealing With Change

Our blogs over the past few months show that college comes with a lot of “new:” new classes, new environment, new friends. For the first time you may really feel like an adult, taking charge of everyday choices you may not have thought about as a high school student. But without the familiarity and comforts of home, it may seem impossible to face all these changes, let alone handle them. However, with some perspective (and these handy tips from The Huffington Post), you’ll find you can handle anything this new phase of your life will bring.

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Accept It: The first step is realizing that your life won’t be the same—and that’s okay! Denying or ignoring the change won’t make it go away. Focus on all that’s new and exciting at college—opportunities, friends, snacks at 2 am—instead of what’s at home.

Reflect: Taking a moment to pause and think about what’s going on is extremely important. Whether it’s talking with a school therapist or family member, going for a walk, or meditating, reflecting on what’s changed will help you sort through the chaos. It will give you the opportunity to figure out what about the change bothers you and provide different ways to look at the situation.

Baby Steps: Dealing and accepting change won’t happen overnight (or within the week). Take your time and slowly move through this process. Don’t get consumed by missing your old life and worrying about your future; take one day at a time and set small goals to accomplish so you can see the progress you’re making. If it helps, make a list of short-term and long-term goals to quiet the worry.

Find A Mentor: Having someone who’s “been there” before can be a huge help. Talk to a family member or friend about your worries and ask them how they got through it. Having someone on your side who understands and can give valuable advice will make the transition better.

Be Optimistic: A small shift in mindset can make a noticeable difference. Thinking in terms of positives rather than negatives will help you see changes as opportunities. Be optimistic in knowing that the confusion and fear won’t be permanent—they’ll soon be replaced with excitement and passion for everything you’re discovering!


Don’t get stressed if you seem to be struggling with change. Everyone’s feeling it, even if they don’t show it. Allow yourself to go through this process, and you’ll come out the other side ready to conquer the next four years!

Monday, August 26, 2013

Passion

When you’re in college, sitting in your first semester classes, millions of thoughts are running through your head. “She has a cool notebook,” or “I wonder what’s for lunch in the cafĂ© today.” Do you ever really sit and think about what’s next? You have your major set, but is it the right one for you? Does this major help express your talent or passion? What are you great at and could see yourself doing for the rest of your life? These are the questions to sit and ask early on before getting into a major and deciding to change it at the last minute. Need help figuring out your passion? TGHT has you covered.  


Create a Career

Many people don’t know the difference between a job and a career. When choosing a career, you are choosing the kind of work you do based on your interest. It’s more long-term; even if you switch companies or organizations, you’re still in the same field. Do you want to jump from job to job without honing in on a particular skill-set or do you want to know all there is to know about a particular field and type of work? You’ll choose this path for yourself, and college will help you turn your passion and talent into a career you love.

When you speak…Listen


What do you enjoy doing? When you’re sitting alone, relaxing, where does your imagination lead you?  Take notes when you have free time and answer this question. It may be a tough one to answer, but everyday take notice of the things that interest you. 

Be Open

Yes, you’re in college and you have your major set. Even though you have your classes planned for the next year, stay open to new ideas. A new opportunity may arise where you can take an extra elective course. Take it! Find something that interests you and don’t be afraid to step out of the box.
 
Find a Mentor

Do you know someone in your family, community, or university that interests you? A person that talks about the same interest you have and seems so passionate? Don’t be afraid; express your interest in learning more and ask them to be your mentor. People are usually thrilled to teach someone or have a person to talk about their passion with. 

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"Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within yoru the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world." Harriet Tubman


Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Perfect Study Spot

When making the transition from high school to college,  new ways of studying have to be put into place. High school provides you with lots of quiet time in your room, after school tutor sessions, or open book/open notes test. In college things, are quite different. You have more freedom, activities to get involved in, and no parents to answer to. You may think you can open your notes for a few in your dorm before the test or run to the library for an hour, but those two places are full of distractions. How can you find the perfect study spot without interruptions? TGHT has a few ideas. 
  • Pick one indoor spot and one outdoor spot. Both locations should be noise free with wireless access if you need it.
  • Your outdoor spot should be a nice shaded area with a great view. Enjoy nature while reading for your history class or reviewing for your next French oral test.
  • Make sure the locations are "your" spots; always choose the same area. Let a few friends know where you are for safety reasons.
  • A small coffee shop is also great for studying. They’re normally quiet and have great snacks. 
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Do you live on campus?
When you live on campus, life is so much easier, right? You’ll be in your dorm studying and preparing for the next day’s lecture...NOT! On campus, you meet tons of new friends, attend events, and get involved in thousands of other things that do not involve studying. 
  • Find a study spot someplace other than your dorm room. Head out to one of the local study spots we discussed previously and keep your dorm room for last minute overviews.
  • Instead of heading back to your dorm for a quick hour nap, spend that in between time studying. That hour or two before your next class starts is the perfect time for studying while your mind is fresh.
  • If you have plans to visit friends or family on the weekend, plan accordingly. Make sure you get all studying done during the week in your designated locations.

Living off campus?
Living off campus gives you more freedom and more study spots to choose from, but commute times can throw your whole day off. 
  • On campus study spots are a great idea, so find a location and stick to it. Just because your last class is over doesn't mean you must race home. Enjoy campus life for a few hours.
  • Coffee shops near your apartment or house is also great for off-campus students. Make sure it’s not during peak hours and wireless access is available. 
  • Public parks or flower gardens are great study spots. A nice scenery and just the right amount of serenity helps you stay focus. 

Where was your on or off-campus go-to study spot?

Monday, August 19, 2013

Homesick

When going off to college we automatically think our weekends will be spent studying, making new friends, and attending on campus activities. You’re so excited about learning your way around campus and making sure all financial aid paper work is in order, that being homesick is the last thing on your mind. Think about all the things you’re missing: a home cooked meal, privacy, less responsibility, and quiet time ….you should be worried if you don’t get homesick, LOL!

This can be a challenge for some, but let TGHT help you survive being homesick.

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Leave your dorm room: It’s okay to talk to your parents, skype your friends or talk on the phone to those you miss but being in your room is when you’re most homesick. Designate one day during the week where you’ll make those types of phone calls. If you’re starting to feel homesick in your room, head to your campus university center or coffee shop to mingle or do some reading.

Be sad and get over it: If you miss home, it’s normal to be sad. We’re pretty positive that other students are feeling the same way you are. Just remember, be sad for a day and that’s it! When that day passes it’s time to move on, get up, and get active. Join an on campus club, work out, attend an event, and make sure you’re getting the full “campus life” experience.

Make college home: Yes we all know college will never replace where you grew up, but you can always make some of the same memories. Think of it as a home away from home. It’s all about recreating those moments. Did you have great friends? Were you heavily involved in your community? Love for journalism? Meet new people, sign up for campus volunteer groups, or join the schools newspaper staff. Also decorate your dorm room similar to your room at home; this will help you feel more comfortable in your new space.

You’re not alone: Do you feel like everyone is adjusting so well to campus life and you’re the only one in your dorm room homesick? That’s not true at all; you’re not alone so take the time to reach out to others.  Have a “homesick sleepover” night and invite your new friends, make sure they bring blankets, movies, and snacks. Are you good at planning? Organize a day to go out and volunteer at a local shelter. This will remind you how precious family time is and how fortunate you are to go off to college.  

Make sure you’re keeping in contact with your high school friends. They may be struggling with homesick and need to hear your voice. Schedule a three way call once a week to update each other on college life and experiences or schedule a weekend visit and enjoy a different college atmosphere. Having those childhood friends close during your college years will help your transition even smoother.


Do you have any tips for a homesick college student? 

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Why Your Teachers and Fellow Students Are Some Of The Best Connections You Can Make

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It’s easy to forget that the real world exists outside of your college, whether they be ivy-covered or cinderblock. Your schedule revolves around three-hour classes, study sessions, the next sports game and what the dining hall is serving tonight. However, the real world is a little closer than you think. The people you see day-in and day-out could be your best connections when you begin building your bright future.

Take your professors. Contrary to popular belief, they aren’t plugged in five minutes before class starts and returned to the storage closet at night. They’re intelligent and enthusiastic human beings who are here to share their knowledge with you. And chances are, teaching isn’t their only job. Many probably teach part-time and still work or participate in their chosen field. They are the best in their industry—so take advantage of their presence! Ask them for guidance on a paper, or drop by their office hours for career advice. Get their email after the class finishes and file it away.  These experts are here to help you for the next four years—use their experience to help you learn and grow. You may not have such easy access to these kinds of people as you take your first entry-level job, so take advantage of their presence now.

Also, connect with your fellow students. You work together on class projects and in extracurriculars. You all bring unique skills to your institution.  You could be working with the next Marissa Mayer, Hillary Clinton, or J.K. Rowling. Friend your peers on Facebook and LinkedIn, exchange emails. Making these connections now will help you down the line; maybe the kid who made a PSA with you for your government class can help you film something at your future job, or maybe you can lend your scientific or literary expertise to someone else in your graduating class. Networking with them before you graduate will help you stay in touch so you can help each other.

Establishing these connections over the next four years will help you tremendously. Not only will you learn from the diverse voices of your professors and classmates, you’ll also establish a network of talented people as you begin your career.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Culture Shock

During the first week of college you’ll notice many different types of people. Culture shock can make you feel surprised, anxious, and confused and usually occurs when you’re exposed to a culture that is very different than yours. Are you a first generation college student? If so, this can be very hard for you because family may not understand the college transition.  International students also may experience culture shock because of the language barrier, different taste in foods, religion, and relationships.

Students who experience culture shock often try to isolate themselves by staying in the dorm, not attending campus functions, and even not making new friends. She may also spend a lot of time missing home and talking to family and old friends. Crying, over eating, over/under sleeping, withdrawal, or missing class are all signs of culture shock.

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See this in your college roommate or friends, encourage and help them adjust to the new life experience. If you’re reading this and feel you’re experiencing culture shock build some strong peer relationships, find a mentor, join a student organization, get involved on campus, or write in a journal. Do not give up on your college education!

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Being Yourself in a Diverse College World



One of the most beautiful aspects of college is the diversity it brings. You have the opportunity to meet people of all walks of life who all have a different story to tell. Everyone, no matter what city, town, or community they hail from, will at some point sit in the same class, same dining table, or join the same organization as you, and you get the opportunity to meet and develop friendships with these unique people. And let’s face it: in college, there’s a lot of pressure to become a lot of things. There’s pressure to become the most popular girl in your class. Pressure to become the smartest girl in your class. Pressure to become the most involved around campus. Or the prettiest girl. The list goes on.

You may be transitioning from a high school or town where the people dress similarly, think similarly, and out of habit, speak similarly, and many people are stripped from their comfort zone and placed into a world where they’re…different. You may not find many people who will think like you, speak like you, or dress like you, and that’s the beauty of it all. You’re uniquely YOU! Don’t succumb to pressure to follow crowds, dress a certain way, or become someone you’re not. Just like everyone in college comes with their own unique story and perspective to offer the world, so do you. You’ll eventually create a tribe of friends who need your unique energy, your unique personality, and will appreciate you just the way you are. Appreciate the differences you encounter, and learn from those you meet, but don’t give in to pressure to fit into any mold. Find your passions, distinguish your likes and dislikes, and get a great idea of what is important to you as you embark on a journey that will change your life for the better. Let this journey change you without letting it change YOU.


Love your differences and know that you have a lot to offer a friend, a college campus, and ultimately, the world. 

Monday, August 5, 2013

Tips For Staying Healthy and Happy in College

For an incoming freshman, one of the greatest perceived college fears is the thought of gaining the “Freshman 15.” Teen magazines and TV shows have instilled this fear in us since elementary school, to the point where it seems inevitable that we’ll suffer this fate. However, a 2011 study found that most college freshman only gain between 2.5-3.5 pounds their freshman year. While it also showed that students can consistently gain over the course of these four years, and even after they graduate, it doesn’t have to be this way. Follow these tips to stay healthy, energized, and ready to take on your first year of college!

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  • Know the culprits behind the Freshman 15: This is your first time living away from home, which means that you’re responsible for choosing what to eat, and when. College dining facilities have a variety of food options every day, and many of the tastier ones are higher in calories and fat. In addition, the stress, anxiety, and homesickness can lead to overeating or stress eating in some people. Knowing these causes will help you make informed decision about when and what you should eat, so you can eat smart and still enjoy a treat.
  • Keep snacks on hand: To avoid that midnight run to the convenience store or that coffee break in between classes, stock nutritious snacks in your room that you can take on the go or enjoy in your room. If you have a mini-fridge, keep fruits and veggies chilled that you can eat alone or with hummus or peanut butter. Yogurt and whole grain cereal or bread are also good to have on hand. These snacks have proteins and carbs that will keep you fueled longer than something sweet or salty.
  • Eat breakfast: Grabbing fruit, toast, a granola bar, or eggs before your 8am class will give you the energy you need for your day and prevent you from getting super hungry and overeating later.
  • Scope out the cafeteria: Take a look at what your cafeteria or dining hall regularly offers at meal times and learn what items will be nutritious and satisfying. The salad bar is always a great place to start—grab some lettuce, veggies, and your favorite vinaigrette dressing. Look for food that is grilled or broiled, or in a light sauce. Creamy, richer sauces and crispy or fried items will be higher in fat. Fruit makes for a great dessert or snack, and you can grab one on your way out with a piece of bread for breakfast the next morning. Enjoy those tasty but rich foods in moderation as a treat at the end of the week or a night out with friends!
  • Get active: While college brings a whole new meaning to the word “busy,” there are plenty of ways to stay active on campus. Join an intramural sport or see what your school’s fitness center offers. Take a walk on a treadmill or around the campus. There are many ways to sneak in a little exercise, like walking to class and taking the stairs. You can even do stretches in your dorm room! Being active will help you stay energized , balance your mood, and reduce stress. Exercise your friends for even more fun!


Remember—a number on the scale or a pair of pants doesn’t determine whether you “conquered” the Freshman 15. The most important part is that you lead a healthy, balanced lifestyle that keeps you happy and enjoying everything college has to offer.

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Balancing It All

When you’re all settled in your dorm and that first month of college has flown by, you have so much school work but still want to hang out with your new college friends. When in college you have your freedom and parents are not there to make sure homework is done before catching a midweek movie with friends. Papers due, lab reports to be submitted, but you want to attend your schools rival football game. What’s a girl to do!? Let’s find balance. When you figure out how to balance your school work and social life, college becomes just a little bit easier. ToGetHerThere is here to help.



Get Organized: Do you own a personal planner? Planners help with due dates, holidays, and scheduling your social life. You are able to check availability before planning trips with friends or volunteering for a highway trash pickup. School assignments come first and with your personal planner you’re able to make sure all work is completed before the due date sneaks up on you.

Study Spot: If you’re studying in bed while your roommate is blasting her favorite song, it’s time to rethink your space. The library should be your go to spot; you’re a lot less distracted and sometimes private rooms are available for study sessions or study groups.

Exercise:  Believe it or not, exercising is a big stress reliever and also keeps you energetic. Take some time out of your day for a quick yoga class, a run around campus, or on the treadmill.  This will give you time to reflect on your day and get your thoughts organized.

Sleep: Are you staying up late for cram sessions before a big test or laughing and watching late night movies with those new dorm buddies? Getting the proper amount of sleep is very important as a college student. Not getting rest can lead to a weak immune system and also hurt your classroom performance.  Make sleep a priority and try to get between 6-8 hours a night.

To Do List: Creating to do lists can not only help you stay organized and prioritize.  List also helps you to stay focused on one task and completing it before moving to the next. When you wake up, create a list: meeting, study for midterm, grocery shop, and sleep by 10p; there’s no better feeling than crossing off everything by the end of the day and feeling accomplished.


Have fun and enjoy your college experience, but also make sure your priorities come first and you’re not crossing yourself off the list. 



Monday, July 29, 2013

Why Be A Volunteer?


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Did you know that in 2012, the volunteer rate dropped by an astounding 30%? While many do understand the importance of lending a helping hand in the community, large numbers underestimate what volunteering their time to a good cause can do in their life and in the lives of others.  

College is the ideal time to volunteer. It’s so tempting to fill the space between classes and your social life with never-ending naps, but why not use that space to boost your rĂ©sumĂ©? Aside from being fulfilled, volunteering while in college helps prepare you for an even more promising future.

When applying for jobs, companies and organizations want to see that you've dedicated yourself to something other than what you were required by your university to do. They see that you take initiative by seeking ways you can apply yourself and impact your community, and that gives you an edge over a potential competitor, especially if you’re seeking a position in the field in which you volunteered. Even better is that you’re showing time management skills; you are able to balance class, a social life, a part- time job (if you choose to), and an unpaid position. It’s impressive!

You also never know who you’ll meet while volunteering. Perhaps the volunteer coordinator wants to offer you a full-time position after you graduate? Maybe someone in your volunteer group is in your major, and can help connect you with professors who can propel your academic career? The possibilities are endless, and you’ll meet people who are equally as passionate as you when you spend time doing volunteer work. Those are the people you want to connect and network with while in college!

Finally, volunteering helps shape the person you’ll become throughout and after college. You’ll grow a sense of compassion for others, become selfless, and thrive off of seeing needs in your community fulfilled. You’ll begin to see that change truly begins with you. With just a little of your time and effort, you can change people’s lives for the better. And you’ll slowly notice that one of the people’s whose life you’ll change…is your own.


Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Finding Your College Friends

With only a few weeks left until your first day of college, you may feel like you've heard everything anyone has ever said, thought, or felt about the next four years of your life. You've told family and friends about your college of choice, what you may want to major in, everything you've managed to pack in your trunk, and your roommate/suitemates’ names. However, the one aspect that often gets left out of these conversations is the social part of college—making friends. While your relationships naturally changed and evolved from pre-school to senior year, this may be the first time (in a while) that many of you will make new friends again. And while this may seem harder than figuring out college classes or where the library is, we have some things to keep in mind as you find your new group, and yourself.

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  • Check your hometown: Even if you live far away from your college, chances are there could be someone nearby who’s also attending. Check your school’s website or Facebook for meet-ups in your area. You’ll get an opportunity to meet your future classmates and have a friendly face or two when you arrive on campus. If there aren't any meet-ups nearby, organize one yourself! Pick a familiar restaurant or park where everyone feels comfortable and can get the chance to know one another
  •  Email those roommates!: Get to know them before you arrive and learn about their interests. You may not be the best of friends by the end of the year, but you’ll never know unless you try!
  • Participate!: Those pre-orientation activities may seem lame, but they’re a great way to meet people. Sign up to take the city tour or join a volunteer activity; you may find someone that has similar interests. And if not, at least you’ll have people to chat with in between classes for the first few months.
  • Get involved: Leave your room and sign up for an intramural sport or campus organization. Look for something you already love or are interested in learning about. Chances are, the people in these groups will also have other interests you share and you’ll click instantly.
  • Be patient: It’s perfectly okay (and even normal) to not have your best friend by the end of orientation week. Some people will be best friends with their freshman roommates all four years, and others will have different friends over the course of their college careers. Know that you’ll find your people if you keep putting yourself out there and do what you love.
  • Be yourself: This is our most important tip. Let your brilliant personality shine through! People will be drawn to it, and you’ll meet the friends you’ll truly connect with. College is a time to discover yourself—learn about what you like and don’t like, and be comfortable in that. People will notice if your behavior seems unnatural for you. Embrace yourself for who you are, and others will too. 

Monday, July 22, 2013

Let's Get Along

When entering college, you’re excited about all the new opportunities and experiences it may bring. You will no longer be in the private room at your parent’s house; now you’re sharing a small space with a stranger for a year or more. Before receiving that piece of paper in the mail with your roommate’s name and address, you may have tons of questions. Is she shy? Do we share the same interest? And the biggest one of all: will we get along? ToGetHerThere has some tips to help a year living with a stranger run smoothly.

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Calls: When given your new roommate’s information, write a letter or give her a call to chat about the upcoming year. Find out her interests, what her major is, and get to know each other before move in day. This is also a great time to go over color schemes if you want to match your comforters. It’s okay to find your new roommate on social media, but do not judge before actually talking to them; Facebook and Twitter can be misleading.

Problem Solving: Do not wait to address any problems with your roommate. Handle the problem as soon as it arises, but when the time is right. Have weekly conversations/meetings with her to ensure you’re always on the same page. These meetings will help things run smoothly when it comes to problems within the room, and they will also help to set room rules so you both can respect each other’s space.

BFF’s: You do not have to become best friends with your roommate; as long as the two of you respect each other’s living space, things will run smoothly. A lot of incoming freshman believe that you must be BFF's—if you do, that's great, but it’s pretty common that your roommate will be just that—your roommate. 

Rules: Within the first few conversations with your roommate should be a conversation about "house rules." This will be very helpful in the long run—less questions and concerns when it comes to cleaning, having company, playing music, or overnight company. Each dorm has a Resident Assistant (commonly called the “RA”) that will meet you and share the dorm building rules; these may be a great start for room rules also. 


Remember: communication is key! Keep an open line of communication with your new “roomie” and the year will fly by with amazing experiences every step of the way. Enjoy being a freshman and your college years—don’t stress about something you can easily resolve with a friendly chat!

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Get Up! Get Involved! Volunteer!

     

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     Getting involved in organizations and dedicating time to volunteering within your community is not only rewarding, but you’ll find that lifelong connections can—and most times, will—be made. College campuses are a home to hundreds of organizations, and you can guarantee that you’ll find an organization that encompasses both your passions and your interests. Volunteering gives you a sense of purpose in your community. Whether you’re helping out at a nearby food bank or volunteering with a local Girl Scout troop, you’ll find that giving back and getting involved really helps give life more meaning.

     So, why get involved? In terms of building your rĂ©sumĂ©, being a member of an organization(s) shows that you’re devoting your time in college to something meaningful, and you seek opportunities to apply yourself and your skills to something outside of the mandatory curriculum. Find a club or organization that aligns with your interests, and commit yourself to staying active. Run for an executive board position! Be a leader. College is the time to map out your future, and participating in organizations is certainly a great start. On top of building your rĂ©sumĂ©, you’re allowing yourself to have a deeper connection to your university. You meet students and faculty you wouldn’t normally meet, attend school functions as a representative of your organization, and have continual opportunities to connect with the student body as a whole during recruitment expos and organizational events. Becoming an active member on campus allows you to create your own unique college experience, and you have the chance to make an impact on your university as a whole.

     Volunteering opportunities are available both on and off campus. Oftentimes, your organization has it written in their constitution that the members will commit to a certain number of community service hours, and they often take trips into the local town to volunteer as a group. Food banks, the local Boys and Girls Club, and nursing homes are all places that you’ll find various orgs accruing hours.

     Want to volunteer outside of your university? Try volunteering with a local Girl Scout troop. Not only will you have rewarding experiences and take unique trips, but you’ll have the chance to impact a girl’s life, so that she, too, can follow in your footsteps and give back to the community when she gets to college. And because you’re not too far removed from the girl scouting age, you have the ability to connect with them, proving to be someone they can chat with, relate to, and view as a friend as opposed to simply a Girl Scout volunteer. You have more wisdom than you think you do, and girls love looking up to someone who understands what they may be experiencing at their age.

     So, how do you get involved? Within a couple weeks of the semester commencing, be on the lookout for events like Student Org Night. Here, every organization sets up a booth with information about what they stand for, what types of events they put on, and why you want to get involved. Don’t be shy; mingle! Visit each booth (there will be a lot, so keep a record of which piqued your interest the most) and get to know the executive board and members. They’ll have a sign-up sheet, so provide your contact information so you can stay up to date with meeting dates, time, and locations.


     Want to join a local Girl Scout troop? Easy! Once you’ve gotten settled into your schedule, visit www.girlscouts.org/councilfinder and find the council nearest you! When you sign up, you’ll be ready to get involved with girls in your area. Volunteering and staying involved create such a unique college experience—don’t let those opportunities go to waste!


Monday, July 15, 2013

Creating Your College Schedule: How to Stay Happy and Focused (And Sane)

It’s several weeks before the start of school--you've sent in your deposit, you have your roommate’s email address, and you have (almost) everything for your dorm room. Now is your next big college task to accomplish: the college schedule. While high school was fairly regimented (you had to take these classes at these times in order to get that diploma) college gives you way more freedom to create the schedule that works best. In no time you’ll be looking through your college’s course catalog trying to plan the perfect first semester. However, talking with current students can make registration seem more like a horror movie than anything else. To avoid the stress, keep these tips in mind to create your best schedule.

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  • Check your requirements: In most schools, freshman can only take certain classes. Look at the 100-level classes offered at your school and start making a list of those that you’re interested in. See if there are any prerequisites, or classes you need to take before taking another. Also look at any major requirements (if you have a major) and see if any beginner classes are open in the fall. Another good thing to check in to is your General Education requirements. These are your math, science, history, and English classes you need to take in order to graduate. See what options are available and if there are any pesky prereqs. If you’re struggling, talk with an academic advisor at your school. They've seen many students like you before—a fifteen minute appointment or email to them can help you get on the right track and excited for your first semester.
  • Decide when you want to take classes: Here’s the beauty of college—you don’t have to go to class at 8am if you don’t want to. Decide when’s the best time to take your classes—all in the morning, nights, three days a week. Be aware: some classes are only offered at certain times. Make sure you take this in to account (and also make sure you don’t register for two classes that meet at the same time!).
  • Make a timeline: If you meet with your academic advisor, it could be a good idea to map out your year (or all four years) so you have an idea of what to take and when. That way, when your last semester rolls around you won’t be worrying about missing a gen-ed requirement or not having enough credits in your major.
  • Have backups (and backups of backups): The classes you want may be filled by upperclassmen by the time you get to campus, so come with alternates lined up. That children’s lit class may be filled, but the class on American short stories could have one space left that you can take. This way, you’re not stunned when half of your options are gone and everyone else is scrambling for another class to fill their schedule.
  • Go to registration on time: Whether you’re registering online, by mail, or in person during orientation, make sure you arrive on time with your plan. Being early will give you a better chance of getting the classes you want and will prepare you for future registrations.
Happy Registration!

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

College Dorm Room Checklist

We know you’re excited about entering college and getting that “college life” experience first-hand.  You’ve probably received tons of graduation gifts, gift cards, money and advice on your next steps. But what do you really need when you’re headed off to college in August? We’ve created a Dorm Room Checklist just for you!

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Get creative and let your dorm room scream, YOU! Whether you’re able to chat with your roommate beforehand to coordinate comforter colors or you have your own direction for your living space, be sure to give it as much of a home feel as possible.  
  •  Bed sheets, comforter, blanket
  •  Pillows and pillow cases
  • Under bed storage
  •   Mini fridge
  • Surge protector 
Most dorm rooms have a desk set up for you to store all your computer related items. This will be your personal desk for all your long nights of writing papers or gathering class material, so make your space comfy and full of exciting colors.

  • Computer, printer, headphones
  • Lamp
  • Ink, USB flash drive
  • Printer paper, notebooks
  • Calendar, folders
  • Pins, pencils, markers, glue, stapler
  • Waste basket
Make sure to start a storage bin or trunk early for all toiletries, bath towels,  wash clothes, detergent, and all other home essentials you’ll need while in college. It’s a great option to drop things in as the summer days fly by, because before you know it, you’ll be headed off on a new journey.

Remember: This is the perfect opportunity to express yourself creatively, so have fun!

Make sure to keep an eye out for full college dorm room checklist at popular stores in your area.




Monday, July 8, 2013

Choosing a College Major


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     High school graduation seems like the end, but it’s really only the beginning. It’s the first day of the rest of your life, and from here, the possibilities are endless. What’s most exciting about college is that the future—the career path you choose to take, the activities you’re a part of, and the lifelong friends you’ll make—is in your hands.  

     One of the most important decisions, you’ll find, is choosing your college major, and it also tends to be one of the most difficult. Where do you start? How do you narrow down your selections? Bachelor of Arts or Bachelor of Science? Don’t get overwhelmed; ToGetHerThere is here to help!


  1. Explore your options. What majors are available to you? Take a look at what your university specializes in (Business? Nursing? Engineering?).
  2. Think about your interests and passions. What you study prepares you for the career path you’ll take, and you want to study something you’re passionate about and interested in. 
  3. Decide on a desired career path. Have you dreamt of becoming a biologist? An English teacher? Taking a job in Public Relations? Perhaps majoring in Biology, English, or Communications, respectively, is the path you’d want to take. Carefully think about what path you’d like to embark on, and choose a major that supports that.
  4. Talk to your academic advisor. As college students, we know a lot, but not nearly as much as we think we do. Take advantage of the academic advisor your university or college has put in place for you; he or she has the experience, knowledge, and wisdom you aren’t privy to yet, and offers excellent perspective as you set out to map out your collegiate career.
  5. Don’t rush into anything. Don’t feel pressured to make a decision during your first semester. Being “Undeclared” is common amongst college freshman—this is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during your lifetime, and you want to be fully confident that the next four, five, or six years are spent working towards a degree(s) that you believe in.

     If you need time to find that path, take it. Take the time to make the right decision, and knock out those prerequisite courses in the meantime!


Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Before You Say Goodbye: Four Ways To Have Fun With High School Friends Before College

In a couple of months, you’ll be in a new city, new state, or just down the street beginning your college experience! You and your friends will be busy these next weeks, going to orientation and furiously packing your life into giant plastic containers. While all of you are pumped for what the fall will bring, you may be feeling sad that the people you shared third grade field trips, middle school dances, and high school classes with won’t be sharing your journey with you. Instead of letting it get you down, use your free time in between work or college prep to spend some quality time with your pals before college begins.

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·         Explore your hometown: Go take a walk with your friends around your neighborhood or the local park. Pack some snacks and take plenty of pictures as you uncover the hidden gems in your area. Use the time to catch up on everyone’s summer plans and college excitement, and get to know your town a little better before you say goodbye.
·         Take a road trip: Ask your parents for the car keys and hit the road! Drive to the beach, state park, amusement park, or city to see the sights and create your own adventure. When you’re missing them in a few months, you’ll have this summer day to brighten your mood and remember how much you care about each other.
·         Spend a night in: Plan something casual and fun that’ll be easy on everyone’s budget. Bring your sleeping bags, make some microwave s’mores, and camp out in the backyard, or grab some popcorn and have a movie marathon. Even something simple will allow you to see old friends and bond in a familiar environment.
·         Try something new: Learn to dance, play soccer in the backyard, create pottery masterpieces, bake a complicated dessert, whatever you want! This will allow you to step outside your comfort zone (something you’ll all have to do when you arrive on campus) and provide plenty of laughs.


As the summer winds down, you’ll finish your packing, say one last goodbye, and begin the next chapter in your life. You’ll feel sad leaving these people behind, and that’s okay! Feel happy knowing you spent a great summer together and that all of you support each other as you head to new and exciting experiences. Have fun your first semester so each of you has great stories to tell the others over winter break!

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Needs vs. Wants


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So you've chosen your ideal summer job, nailed your interview, and start next week. Score! On top of gaining valuable skills to carry on throughout your life, working a summer job means more money for trips, summer clothes, and outings with friends. It welcomes the opportunity to become more independent, providing for yourself more than ever before. What better way to spend the free time that summer brings?
It’s important to remember, though, that with money and financial independence comes more responsibility. Create a budget, outlining your expenses and deciding how much you’ll have to spend and how much you need to save. After all, wouldn't it be wonderful to go off to college or into the next school year with something to show for the hard work you did this summer? Saving is important, and the only way to save is to set saving goals and be smart about your spending. Determine needs versus wants.

Needs are things you can’t afford to live without. Traditional needs include:

·         Transportation (gas)
·         Bills
·         Food
·         Basic clothing
·         Toiletries
·         Saving

Before you spend leisurely, make sure you've taken care of your needs first. Does your cell phone bill need to be paid? Set that money aside as soon as you receive a paycheck. Running low on toiletries? Take care of that, too. Filling up your gas tank also prevents you from having to spend money repeatedly on frequent trips to the gas station. And before everything, make sure you've set your savings aside. Opening a savings account gives you the opportunity to transfer to your savings every paycheck, and commit to not touching that money until you've reached your saving goal or absolutely need it.

Wants are expenses that you could live without. Do you really need that $5 latte every morning before work? Do you have to go to a restaurant every day, or could you wake up a few minutes early and pack your lunch? Is that new outfit a necessity, or could you mix and match items in your closet to create something totally new?

Explore ways to cut down on your wants, or agree to spend less in one area in order to enjoy something else. Examples include:

  • ·         Packing your lunch every day for a week if you know you’re taking a road trip with friends that weekend
  • ·         Opting out of buying  new shoes if you know you’re doing dinner and a movie after work
  • ·         Deciding which new album to buy with one paycheck, and waiting for the next check to purchase the other

Part of being responsible is spending responsibly. Create a budget before the money starts flowing in, and watch how you’ll be able to control your spending while still enjoying everything we love about summertime!